I posed this deeply philosophical question on whether it was better to ask for a spanking or to earn one through bratting. I thank you to all who answered. Great participation!As of today and out of 45 responses, survey says:
40% of you sexy respondents are tops
- 22% of you say, "Ask away!"
- 6% of you say, "Brat away!"
- 72% of you say, "Mix it up!"
60% of you naughty respondents are bottoms
- 30% of you prefer to ask for a spanking
- 15% of you prefer to brat your way into a spanking
- 55% of you prefer to mix it up
I guess, as in all things, variety is the spice of life, with an overwhelming number of you preferring to keep a healthy balance in your relationship.
Ever the persuasive guy, D made a compelling point: "When you ask, you get to choose your implement. When you brat, I get to choose your implement."
Ummm...can I change my vote?
(Photo of Caroline Lannon, one of my recent obsessions, courtesy of Firmhand Spanking.)
Pink, you have a girl crush. Aw, isn't that cute.
ReplyDeleteFirm hand has some real beauties. I've crushed on several
D has a good point with the choice of instrument.
Samantha Woodley ranks high in my book, too. And D ALWAYS makes a good point.
ReplyDeleteWell, usually...
Thanks, BT!
:)
ReplyDeleteHi B-P,
ReplyDeleteI used to "brat" before I knew what it was. And, spanker did not respond forcefully enough at first.
But she figured it out, after an irritating round of bratting one day. I got spanked hard. End of bratting. And, I felt better, and she felt better.
After that: more honest discussion about it, and need for spanking at times. Bratting? Not such a bright idea from that point on.
Anony: Welcome and thanks for stopping in!
ReplyDeleteI totally understand what you're saying. Truth be told, I really don't brat either -- unless it's more of a role-play bratting scenario (which can be a lot of fun). Otherwise I'm pretty upfront. Or an upfront bitch. But, you know...we all have our days.
Thanks again!
I missed that post. I would agree, whatever is appropriate at the time, a little bit of both is good.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Ronnie
xx
Ronnie: I agree with you. It's not too late to cast your vote, btw. I have NO idea how to close the poll! :)
ReplyDelete(I'm such an amateur!)